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My boyfriend and I want to move in together. My boyfriend smokes weed and I work for a government agency. If he gets caught, I could get fired if I am living with him. Should I move in with him?

Asked by dee1313 (953points) December 5th, 2014

I am debating moving in with my boyfriend. We’ve been together for two and a half years and there is one thing that keeps me from saying forever. He smokes weed. I work for a government agency and my degree is in criminal justice. I went through all the screenings and didn’t leave anything out, in my screening papers I wrote that my boyfriend and my brother smokes weed. So I guess my job “knows” but I’m afriad to move in with him in case he gets caught somehow, he told me he’d keep all his “stuff” in his car. But that doesn’t seem good enough. When we first started dating he stopped smoking cigarettes and another very bad substance that is white and powdery. I’m terrified that he’ll get caught and that I’ll be living with him at the time. He goes and picks up weed for his boss, I mean seriously, that’s considered a fucking dealer. I don’t know what to do. He’s told me that he’ll probably never stop smoking weed and always says “It’ll be legal in a couple of years anyway.” Maybe in Missouri, but not Kansas. Any thoughts?

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