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Is it any worth keep arguing with someone who has autism?

Asked by dopeguru (1928points) December 31st, 2014

A friend of mine who is somewhat autistic keeps abusing me verbally by judging every single behavior of mine and trying to make sense of it. Where he fails it that he assumes a lot and projects his assumptions as though they’re absolute facts. Imagine being with a friend who analyzes your every behavior and throws their judgments on your face, telling you why you are like that. The worst part is he doesn’t do it nicely or without being given any chance to hear what I have to say.

I was wondering how much of his behavior is caused by his autism and how seriously should I dwell on this part of our relationship. I’d like to know if he is indeed normal in behaving like this as he claims to be (he is a very smart guy in actuality) or if this unacceptable as I tell him so. He says he is coherent by being this way, judging constantly etc. And when I say otherwise and show my disturbance and try to communicate to him how he is being abusive and awful, he said I am being judgmental exactly as I say he is… Kind of seems like he views himself as is this perfect entity who is smarter than everyone. He says his vision is to believe in what one says, but doubt when you are by yourself.

I need second thoughts on this because I am very, very frustrated and I give people too many chances before stopping talking.

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