Flutherites, how many of you are happily married after 10 years or more?

Please list if you eloped or had a big wedding.

If you didn’t make it to 10 years, please list if it was a big wedding or elopement.
Please list others you may know.

I read an article about elopement and it got me curious. Put FW for formal wedding, and EL, for eloped.
BIL FW.———Still married, over 25 yrs.
Brother- FW —Divorced in 2 years
SIL FW———- Divorced in 1 year
Brother FW ,——- Divorced in 1
Cousin, EL,————Divorced in about 12 years
Me, EL————-Still married, over 33
Brother, EL————-Still married, over 10
Cousin El—————Still married over 10
Cousin FW————-Divorced in 3yrs
Cousin, EL————-Divorced in 4 years