How do I reshape this haircut to make it look good?

So I had thick long hair and I wanted to shorten it a little bit. I wanted layers… The hair dresser made me look like one of those emo kids or women from the 80s. Here is what my hair looks like now:

http://www.haircuts2015.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/12-Casual-Shag-Haircuts-Hairstyle-12.jpg

https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/cd/41/30/cd41301a35d15d77c2ac4b79c99eb44a.jpg

The top layers are even shorter than these two photos… they hang above my ears, right eye angle! It looks awful and makes my head look huge.

What I want is similar to this hairstyle:
http://bonnier.imgix.net/freja-beha-erichsen-17-igZwibDwPRNONOvBlsXsFQ.jpg

http://intothegloss.com/wp-content/uploads3/2010/09/Freja-Beha-The-FACE2.jpg

http://www.the-trendy-fashion-doll.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/frejabeha6.jpg

Any hope? How? I will see some hair dressers soon but I can’t help feeling anxious and sad about this situation!