NSFW With sex today being reduced to a mere commodity why do people seem surprised when it is not more?

NSFW Some things said regarding sex in past threads some of the post snippets are:

• I had sex with a woman once and wondered half way through if she still had a pulse. It was sort of like having sex with a mannequin that was alive but unresponsive. Leading up to the sex, she seemed like a pretty normal lady. Once was more than enough with this person. The worse part was, for her anyway, my performance being great and her getting nothing from it.

• The first time always sucks – The second time even worse, she was on top and very drunk and barfed on me.

• About two minutes into the deed, her boyfriend was all I could think about because I’m not the type that could cheat on someone and so I was just thinking how he would feel over this. It only lasted about 3 minutes and we both wished it had never happened.

• I looked at my watch and said, “No she didn’t ‘fuck my brains out.’ I’ve been up for 73 hours straight with nothing but alcohol and nicotine to keep me running. I’m tired. I’m drunk. I’m hungry. I’m pissed off. I’m leaving.”

• [… i was went over his house to meet up with him, walked in the front door (he had a very open house), and went up to his room where the door was closed.
i knocked, he said come in, and he is fucking this chick….in the ass. it gets weirder though. he tells me to check out her tits and i’m like yeaaah they’re real nice. and he tells me to feel them and shes like agreeing with him that i should touch them so i grab on them for a second agree they are very nice tits and leave the room to wait downstairs in his tv room….]
ps. the same dude used to take pics and videos his girlfriends and other girls and show them to me all the time.

• I join in and find myself on the dance floor making out with this chick from high school that I never really noticed until that night (it was probably the dark heavy eye shadow and black leather that did it.) We leave the party and stumble back to her dorm room. She had some “molly” which I was not a stranger to and I had some grass, so we smoked, popped, and got naked..

Why would you be surprised something treaded with as much reverence as a cheap hamburger not be seen as something greater like a meal of prime abalone? If it is merely just for enjoyment like a round of golf, or a pick-up game of basketball, why care if the arrangement is free or because of a monetary deal or it is less than a “WOW” experience?