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Is getting coffee considered a date or just friendly?

Asked by travelbabe24 (262points) September 5th, 2015 from iPhone

So this guy in my college class just asked me if I would like to get coffee with him sometime soon. I said yes, but now that I think about it, I don’t know if that’s a date or just getting to know each other.

He’s always been friendly to me, but he treats me the same as everyone else. I don’t notice any flirting or anything of that sort.

A couple years ago we had a class together and I remember him being my “ideal guy” at the time. We had the same morals and interests. But now that I’m older and just recently left a difficult relationship a couple months ago, I’m not sure if I’m ready to date. I like the idea of dating, but when I think about my past relationships, I’m not sure if I want to try again any time soon.

So is he just being friendly? Or is he interested? And if he’s interested, should I try to get to know him and see if there’s a spark? Or stay single?

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