Isn’t closing a frat for doing what everyone is doing anyhow somewhat hypocritical?

Disclaimer I am not condoning or supporting the actions of the fraternity insomuch as the double standard applied to them for activities that occurs on campuses all over the US

While browsing a newspaper I read a clip that Indiana University that Alpha Tau Omega because a sex tape of a pledge performing sex acts with a stripper hired by the frat brothers or someone there. Supposedly all the participants were onboard with it and did it of their own volition. C’mon, you don’t think the same are worse is going on in dorm rooms and the likes by campus students? College is infamous for students boinking like bunnies. Is it because the tape went public somehow and the fraternity wants to put on airs like they are so respectable, yet if that and more were done in the dark no one would care? For fellow students to say it was vulgar, disgusting, etc. doesn’t it make them out to be hypocrites and frauds, like they are not boinking in their apartments, dorms, vehicles, etc.?