How do we, average citizens, best respond to terrorism?

Terrorism by its name implies an act aimed at inciting extreme emotion. It propels us into acts of irrationality. It elicits rage. These emotions can come from many places in us and are rightfully very complex. The causes of terrorism and our reactions to it are not simple.

Today’s attack in Brussels is the latest. It happened in Turkey just a few days ago. Paris was last year. New York City was 15 years ago. There are many more. Too many to mention here.

As an average person, what response to these atrocities is most efficacious? How do you choose to act in the face of the news?

Personally, I read the news. I offer silent thoughts for the dead and their loved ones left to mourn. And then, I go about my day. I smile at the bus driver and say a good morning to him. I actively listen to my colleague and make sure he knows he’s heard. I savor the lox-infused cream cheese on my bagel given to me by another colleague.

I will sit in a nearby cathedral and meditate at lunch. I will do my work with a little bit more gratitude. Tonight, I will enjoy my dinner alone in my home. And on Saturday, I will happily go to the Democratic caucuses here to support my choice for nominee to the presidency.

Perhaps that last point is important, but I choose to think that adding a portion of thoughtfulness to my everyday activities is more important. It is my courageous act in retaliation to horror.