If someone has been very rude to you here do you avoid them?

Just in case you think I have a bone to pick, I don’t!

It occurred to me the other day that some members had been very rude to me in the past, but I had completely forgotten! The bliss of old age hey?

This meant that I was answering their further future questions with nary a care (is that correct English?). What if they wished I hadn’t? Am I supposed to avoid them? It’s hard, since I can’t remember their names!

It’s just not that important to me anymore.

I only remember one member was absolutely terrible to me for no reason and I avoided her like the plague! Other than that how do you carry on? Do you avoid them or forget like me? Does it bug you upset you and for how long. Long ago perhaps 5 or 6 years ago it used to upset me a lot.