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Why does Idealizing someone only leads to so much dissapointment?

Asked by butterfly_Wings (64points) May 2nd, 2017

For example: if we start to Idealize a person we just started a relationship with, without knowing them very well, and then we start seeing their true colors (how they are in real life), why does this usually lead to so much mental and emotional havoc, besides great disappointment and sadness?

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