Is there a key to loving someone instantly? A reason?

Asked by dopeguru (1928) September 7th, 2017 from iPhone

I noticed a pattern with men who fall for me. They all teared up within first few days of meeting me and told me very personal things , getting really vulnerable. I noticed this. But i want to feel that love again. Why do i have that impact on some guys? Maybe if I knew why and how, I can recreate it…