Send to a Friend

coldinmysoul's avatar

Should I tell my BFF that I want to give a speech at her wedding after she told me they hadn't planned on it?

Asked by coldinmysoul (50points) September 9th, 2017

I’ll be brief. My BFF and I have been friends for nearly 25 years. She is getting married soon. Her sister (married) is the Matron of Honor and I (single) am the Maid of Honor.

Today I found out that my BFF and her fiance had only planned on her sister and his best man giving speeches. I was really looking forward to giving a speech of some sort, even if it’s just a quick toast.

How can I tell her I would like to give a speech without coming off like I’m demanding one and as if I’m purposely going against her wishes?

Using Fluther

or

Using Email

Separate multiple emails with commas.
We’ll only use these emails for this message.