What would you do if this happened after bouncing a check?

My husband handles the money on line. I asked him if it was alright to pay my phone bill. It comes out of a bank account. He says yes so i do. No I didn’t look at the account to see if there was $ 62.37 in there as s
he watches them every day. So the $62.37 bounced because I didn’t check….that is why I asked him as I have never checked the account before. He threw a fit and was preaching to me about the $32.00 overdraft we will have to pay. I told him that was why I asked him….He said you have one little bill to take care of and you can’t do it..I have to do them all? He said you act like money means nothing to you….not true. HE chose this way of life-farming and no I don’t work…he doesn’t want me to at 60 but he managed to spend most of my inheritance….but we don’t bring that up. What would you have done while he is screaming lecturing you?