Two guys asked me out to prom, Who should I choose?

You see, Guy A had a crush on me since Grade 7, he was the first who asked me out to prom, through text message. Being the good person that I was, I kindly accepted it because he’s a good guy and whatnot. But having a group of friends with high standards, it didn’t go too well.

They said that he should ask me out in person, and not through some dumb text. I, on the other hand also think the same. But I tried to reason with them that Guy A was super shy in person, but they said it’s not enough of an excuse for him, because he’s a guy who’s asking me to prom.

So, the next day, my other guy friend, Guy B asked me out to prom, but this time, he asked me out in person. Thinking about it, he’s the first one who asked me to prom, so I didn’t mind it and just said, “Sure. Why not?”

But that’s my biggest mistake.

The following week, I went to school like normal, nothing unusual, just normal. As I was just enjoying my day, my classmate whispered to me that Guy A is planning a promposal for me. Of course at first I tried not to believe it. Because I already am taken by Guy B.

Lunch rolls by, and I see Guy A with his classmates holding banners with a sign “Will you go to prom with me?” and some snacks for me. I felt guilty and ashamed at myself. For once, I regretted saying yes to Guy B, because Guy A was the first one who really asked me to prom. I tried asking help through my classmates, but they all said “No, don’t accept it. You already got a date.”

So, while thinking of what will Guy B would feel, I rejected Guy A.

But honestly speaking, I wanted to go with Guy A, instead of Guy B. I talked to my friends about it, on what should I do, did do the right thing and whatnot.

But what my friend said to me, opened my eyes. “It’s not about who asked you first in person, it’s about who you want to be with.”

At that moment, I knew who I wanted to partner with. So, I talked to Guy B, saying that I want Guy A to be my partner. He said that it’s fine, but I know he isn’t fine.

So here’s my question to you all. Did I do the right thing? Call me selfish, a dumb b*tch, or whatever. But for once, just this once, I wanted something to go my way, not everyone’s way.

I always pleased everyone around me, but I never got to do that to myself. So, with this, I hope Guy A can take me back, if he’s still willing though.