My ex girlfriend broke up with me about a week ago. Why Won’t she give me my stuff back?

Asked by Rowilli96 (32) December 22nd, 2018 from iPhone

We had a really bad argument in which we both said some harsh things to one another. She blocked me on everything, and even deleted all our pictures. She told me she don’t love me but it sounds like it was out of anger. We have had no contact for the past 4 days and when we did I asked for my belongings back before she blocked me. She dumped me over text and not to mention we had a 9 month relationship. Am I pushing her by overwhelming her? Should I give it more time? I really do love and care for her, but I really need my belongings I have alot of important stuff at her place.