Is This a Loving Statement?

My husband told me “Just don’t make me look like an idiot for being on your side.”

I’m so upset and mad that he said this. I don’t feel like that is unconditional love if that’s the rule he lives by with me.

Shouldn’t he just trust that I won’t make him look like an idiot for being with me? Why even put that out there, I would never say that. If I’m his wife he shouldn’t see me as possibly being the enemy.

What do you guys think of this statement? Does it raise any red flags?