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How should I broach the idea of moving cities with my husband?

Asked by Franki (9points) February 22nd, 2019 from iPhone

I want to move to a new city, but I don’t think my husband will entertain the idea let alone want to. He might dig his heels in and the mention of this will iritate him. He’s not mean or abusive in anyway. He’s just stuck in his ways and wouldn’t have the confidence or patience to put in the effort and see it through. He has a great job here. In 11 years he worked his way up from staff to a well paid mid management posistion. He doesn’t have a degree or qualifications, he will be very worried about his job. I don’t mind staying but the urge to move and start over again is there. Im craving a new life and bigger space and slowly pace of life for us and the kids. He also wants those things. I don’t want to move hundreds of miles away because we have family and parents here. we currently live in London.

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