My Work/ Boss Forgot Admin's Day... AGAIN?

I just celebrated my 4 year anniversary with my work. I had to mention it discretely in a meeting to get them to remember it. So far they have never given me a card for my bday and only one year did they remember admins day.

I am usually the one to buy cards for everyone and make arrangements for b-days, anniversaries, and other special occasions. I even bought, served, and cleaned up my anniversary lunch. As I do every lunch for special occasions.

I am really upset and I feel underappreciated. Most of the year that’s what I signed up for being an admin. But one day a year I’m supposed to at least get a pat on the back and I never do.

My husband thinks I should say something but I have no idea how I would bring this up.

I wouldn’t be so bothered if they didn’t also forget my birthday every year.

My other employers ALWAYS gave me flowers or signed a card for admins day.

What should I say or should I just get over it?