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Do You Frequently Experience that People Forget they've Met You Before?

Asked by BackinBlack (1207points) October 14th, 2019

I’ve been trying to think less lately that I am the only one who experiences things. I get so sensitive when someone who I’ve met already says “Hi what’s your name, nice to meet you.” I am afraid that I have some flaw that makes me invisible or boring.

I feel like people never remember me and it will even be like 3 or 4 times that I have met and talked with them. I was at a wedding this weekend and there were several people who I had met and had conversations with like 3+ times and they had no recollection of who I was.

I don’t think of myself as boring or forgettable. I have lots of tattoos, a nose ring, my hair is blonde and black and I dress very interesting and always wear make up and hair styles that most people do not wear. I’m not trying to be self centered but I am a pretty young girl lol. I’m polite and converse with people. I am always surprised to find out that someone doesn’t remember me AT ALL!

Does anyone else have this problem? Why do you think people are so forgetful?

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