Is 'Rational love' a real thing? Or is love irrational by definition ?

By rational love I mean love that is based on safety, security and a sense of full honesty with one another, even if the truth hurts. It is not playing games, it is not concealing reality to appear better or simply out of fear of losing someone. It is based on facts and constant progress to the truths. it can only be possible with both parties participating.