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If you are attracted to persons of a different height or size, how much of this difference before its too much?

Asked by Yellowdog (12216points) March 9th, 2020

This is a sort of follow-up question to @lucillelucillelucille ‘s question, How much importance did/do you put on someone’s height?

Since Junior High, I have been attracted to girls who were shorter or smaller. This of course is not the only factor and isn’t relevant if there are other factors.

At six feet, I once had a close friendship that bordered on romantic with a girl in a wheelchair who was only 4’-3”. She passed away from complications with her kidneys that made her that small. But there are limits. When I was in high school, there was a girl who looked more like a four or five year old who had a similar condition. That just seems too much.

Women on this site have said that height doesn’t matter—but what if the guy is close to, or over, seven feet—or closer to four feet? Are there limits to what you could handle in a dating relationship?

Man or women, there are limits we all have. If we have a preference to someone shorter or taller, what are the limits? If you are attracted to relations with shorter people, how short is too short? Or if it is taller people, how tall is too much?

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