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Does infatuation go in hand with idealization?

Asked by Bellezzz (98points) September 19th, 2020 from iPhone

I would like to know everything about these 2 phenomenon, is it normal for a person to go through them? Can they change the way you perceive the person that you are getting to know
Or that you are interested in.

For example: My friend was infatuated with a coworker they were getting to know each other but she seemed so obsessed about him telling me how awesome and great he looked and the list goes on, but I personally did not see how awesome or great he looked, to me was just an average handsome man, nothing especial.

My question is, why does she sees him in such ways, when most people does not seem him that way?

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