Should I tell my husband I had to contact my ex?

Asked by chelle21689 (7907) November 21st, 2020 from iPhone

I stumbled upon a super old Flickr account I had because I wanted to look at my old photogphy and then I realized my ex had this photo of me up on his account still. It was a photo shoot we did, a little risqué, but he had photoshopped it to make me look like I was bottomless. Though it had been 10 years since we were together and his account hasn’t been active in years, I wanted that photo down.

I contacted my ex and asked if he remembered the password and if he could remove it. Of all the times I decide to contact him, he found out that his brother was found dead and decomposed. Out of respect for my husband I kept it short and gave my condolences and thanked him for taking care of removing the photo.

I hadn’t done anything wrong but I felt like it was wrong of me to even talk to my ex and I feel guilty. I also felt dirty for having this photo taken of me. I usually tell my husband every single thing and I want to tell him about this but don’t know if there’s any point and if it would only make him worry.

Thoughts? Get it off my chest or keep it to myself if no harm done?

TLDR: Had to contact my ex but feel guilty even though it’s nothing breaking trust.