How do we deal with physically getting older?

Asked by tan253 (2948) February 23rd, 2021 from iPhone

Hey guys, I’m now in my 40’s. 45 almost and I’m actually struggling, I know this is vanity but just hear me out. I work in film and tv and I’ve noticed my skin sags now, I can’t lose weight easily, I have wrinkles, jowls, turkey neck. Always tired and now grumpy as I find it hard to look at myself. I hate getting my photo taken and every time I see myself I feel sad. Now I know this sounds harsh and vain and we ‘all age so get over it,’ yet in my industry woman are not allowed to age. I’m thinking of plastic surgery but I hate the idea of plastic surgery. Anyone else understand? I expect a barrage of ‘stop being selfish’ comments but I do hope to hear from someone that understands – I love that I’m older but I don’t like the changes in my body.