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Is there just something wrong with me?

Asked by SergeantQueen (12874points) July 27th, 2021

I mean, all I said to my boyfriend was that I dislike only seeing him once a week. I wasn’t saying I need it to be more, as I know it really can’t be. He said it doesn’t bug him and I asked if he just didn’t like to hangout with me.

So I guess that means I’m dependent and obsessive? But how? I hardly ever text him, and rarely see him. yeah, I get annoyed at him not wanting to go out sometimes but I never act clingy and I don’t depend on him for anything at all, not even emotionally.

He said it was because I don’t have anybody else I do anything with, but it’s always been like that for me and I do just fine, once again I do not need him for anything. It’s cool to have someone to hang out with in real life but I have never needed it, and never with him either.

All I said was it sucks to not see him as much anymore. I never said that I need more or anything. I am not clingy, nor obsessed, nor dependent. But yet he thinks I am.

We haven’t talked in 2 days, I won’t be messaging him unless he messages me.

Do you guys think anything I said means I am dependent on him? Or even obsessed?

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