How to deal with my parents?

I have toxic father that want to controlling me even if I am over 25 years old.

When I graduate my high school, my father keep pressure me to study medicine or accountant in university. But I choose to study Software Engineering in university. My father disappointed with me at the first place.

After I graduate my university, I get my first job in TikTok as Software Engineer. And also spend some free time in cosplay community and making video in Tiktok. My father keep harassing me about “why you don’t find a job in Microsoft or Bank companies and why did you spend so much time in cosplaying and making Tiktok videos. You should spend more time with successful people and rich people but not with famous people instead”. But I don’t really care about him.

After 4 years, I change my job and join Google as Software Engineer. Due to convid-19, I spend most of the time in making Tiktok videos. But my father keep harassing by going to my house at night and calling my mobile phone during weekends. But I warned my father if you keep harassing me, I will going to call police. My father will harassing me every month.

Even though, my elder brother and mom helping me by telling my father “let him do something, what he love to do, why you keep pressure him.” My father reply “Join TikTok company is making indecent moral for public, Join Google company is for lazy people without an achievement and spend time in cosplaying community is for kid. My father say joining Microsoft will be successful like Bill Gates in future.”

My elder brother and mom advise me “to move house to somewhere where is far so that my father can’t find me in future and keep doing what you love to do don’t bother your father because he is just loser. If you join Microsoft or bank companies, he will show off to his elderly neighbors about “your children are loser, can’t compete with my son”.