Is anyone in your life trying to change you? If so, how does that feel?

How does it feel to you when you know someone is trying to change you? Trying to get you to stop or start doing something, most likely? Or change the way you feel about something?

How do you react to that and how do you respond? What if it’s something big (learn to listen better, quit drinking, change your career) instead of small (rinse your dishes, turn off the bathroom light)? or are the big and the small all actually the same?