How are you? Really. #?

I started asking this series of questions many years ago here. I don’t remember when I asked it last or what number in the series that was.

In the US, it’s a common greeting to ask, “How are you?” In the vast majority of cases, the asker only wants to hear that the responder is fine or OK. Even if it’s not true, we usually answer that we’re OK.

Fluther is a small community, and some of us have known each other more than ten years. We can be honest with each other.

How are you? Really.

I’m actually in a very bad place myself. Old timers here know that I live with a mental health challenge. My disease was rekindled by extreme stress at work, and I’m currently on extended sick leave while I recover. I am lucky to be able to do that. I am grateful that I have excellent resources. I have a superb psychiatrist and also an excellent psychologist. I also have a good group of friends that provide good support. Another difficulty I’m experiencing is with my family of origin. I’m an out and proud gay man, and they are hostile. It sucks.

What about you? How are you? Really.

If you happen to be someone who usually avoids me because we don’t get along, feel free to answer anyway. This isn’t the thread for arguments. I know how to scroll past. I’m sure there will be sympathetic jellies who will offer encouraging words.