How does fluther help you?

I just joined to write a question, but everytime the question I was writing was answered in my head, or atleast I had an idea that reading any other answer would not suffice. It has to come from inside me. Are my questions special? For example this question is something that others might have experienced. So i am probably going to post it. But the other questions I wrote and deleted were things I have to make a decision on myself, and no one can do it for me. Sheesh where did that come from. I might delete this one too since theres nothing else to be said, and I don’t want your answers anymore.