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Do you want to know why people reject you?

Asked by nikipedia (28077points) January 14th, 2009

If you’re casually dating someone and s/he chooses to stop seeing you, do you want to know why?

On the one hand, it seems useful to have feedback like that so you can change whatever caused the issue. On the other, you can’t please everyone, and should you really change yourself to make other people happy? And of course it always sucks to get criticized….

On the other side of the equation, if someone asked you why you wanted to stop seeing him/her, would you tell the truth?

Have you been in either situation? What happened?

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