How Do I Confront My Mom About Her Boyfriend?

Asked by desiree333 (3236) February 1st, 2009 from iPhone

My moms boyfriend is driving me crazy! He dosen’t do anything except sleep and watch TV. My mom dosent like it but sheputs up with it.He never shows any interest in anything. He dosen’t speak unless he’s spoken to, he never says I love you or shows any affection to my mom. They have been living together for almost 5 years. When my mom met him he was recently divorced and was living in a motel! The only reason I think he stays around is because he is living off my mom. They have been together for 5 years and he has never taken my mom out for valentines day dinner or anything. Last year he even forgot my moms birthday! After I reminded/scolded him for it he still didn’t go out andbuyher a cake or anything! Then when she came home he never even said happy birthday or was happy or anything. My mom is a really classy woman with high standards exceptfor men. How do I talk with her or somehow let her know that he is an idiot that dosen’t even care about her?