Why Won't My Father Realize that Committing Offensive Behavior After He Joined AA Still Hurts Like Hell?

Okay, I hope that question makes sense. I am just curious if there are any recovering alcoholics out there that realize they can still inflict a lot of pain to their loved ones even after they join the “fellowship”? Making amends for past deeds doesn’t absolve one from present or future deeds. It’s not a get-out-of-jail free card. Although I am proud of him for his commitment, he can still be a thoughtless jerk.