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What's the deal with first loves (I sound like Seinfeld)? A study shows that memories of first loves can endanger subsequent romances. Thoughts?

Asked by Jude (32198points) March 23rd, 2009

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I have found with people whom I have dated, some tend to compare you and the relationship to what they had with their first love. In some cases, even though the first love treated them badly, there is still a comparison. It’s almost as if, whether it had been a good relationship or bad with their ex, they’re trying to recapture that intensity and passion, if that makes any sense.

What are your thoughts on that?

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