Do you feel similarly that it's the small indigities that wear you down, maybe little things you tell yourself are no big deal but every now and then you realize they do bug you?

Example:
In this economy, not everyone is outright losing their jobs but maybe they’ve been cut back on hours, maybe the rents and mtgs. are a month behind, maybe you’re not eating out at your favorite spot every week or you’ve given up alcohol and cigarettes because of the cost (not a bad idea) or not been able to replace a tire on your car and still ride on the emergency donut tire.