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What do you think of a cyberstalking boyfriend?

Asked by ishecrazy29 (4points) May 28th, 2009

Well my boyfriend knew that I had male friends, and tricked me through email by pretending to be someone that I met before. I told him about this person, and all of the details about this person, and this was how he was able to trick me.

Anyway, I kind of had a feeling it was him, but went on this date that he set up, expecting to see the person that I met. My boyfriend shows up, and now I know that it was him that set up the fake date. When he sees me at the restaurant, instead of coming clean, he is all upset and walks away from me and goes home.

I then call him about 15 minutes later and ask him if there is something that he needs to tell me, and he still doesn’t admit that it was him. So I then go on to believe that this was really a person who stood me up.

To make matters worse, he continues to email me, asking for a second chance to see me. I’m more confused than ever, because I wouldn’t think he would go though all of this at the age of 39 to trick a woman. I’m torn between the idea of it being him, or an actual person that I met before.

I had to go to him and tell him that I knew that it was him. He apologizes and said that he never had played a game like that on anyone. We’ll probably remain friends now, if anything. He kind of scard me. :(

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