What does it take to win your lurve?

I find that it doesn’t necessarily take a genius answer to win my lurve. Answers can be stupid or totally off beat. Even if it’s 100% and it makes me laugh, I’ll give it to them.
In a good question, I want it to give me a challenge and make me think. Possibly even suspect that they’re going off the deep end. All good questions don’t always deserve that extra three points.
And what does it take to be in your fluther? Do you consider them someone you just like their answers? All of their answers or a few? Do you have to think to yourself, “From the looks of it, I could hang out with that person.” Or are you just trying to get lurve in return?
I’m not stingy with my lurve, it just takes that extra special gumption to get it.
What does it take to win yours?