Is there truth to this statement about women? (details...)

I’m not sure where i heard this and can’t remember the exact words but it was to this effect….“A girl grows up with the assumption that when she chooses to have sex the man will not turn her down” the point was – it is far more devastating when she is rejected, assuming man is always trying to have sex and women are more selective. thoughts? (i guess a side question is – are men more capable of dealing with rejection?)