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What to do when I have a mental connection with a guy but find aspects of his looks off-putting?

Asked by lostinyoureyes (1121points) August 5th, 2009

So basically my real question is: How do I stop being so superficial?

This guy, let’s call him Mark, and I hit it off really quickly at work. We went out dancing one night with a group of other friends and got sort of touchy and always gravitated towards each other. I didn’t have to make any effort in my conversations with him. It’s so natural.

Personality-wise I find him very attractive but there are parts of his looks that bother me a lot. Thick nose hair (shudder) and extreme sweatiness. These things really hinder my attraction to him.

I want to like him for him. But if I’m being truly honest, my superficiality is getting in the way.

What do I do?

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