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When you recognize someone in emotional turmoil, is there a bit of you more afraid to speak out to them than to offer up advice, observation, support, etc?

Asked by hungryhungryhortence (12176points) August 8th, 2009

I’m raising my hand to share, I’ve got some stuff that might make sense, might be helpful, maybe someone will believe it:

Connections between people are precious so make every bit of the time the most you can for as long as you can. Don’t wonder when it might go wrong/end or who will be the one to kill it off or how long you think you want it to last. Play the game of, “let’s not name it, let’s not dissect it, let’s enjoy the hell out of it”.

One hit can heal nine misses. I don’t gamble with money but I’ll admit to being a gambler of people; I know there’s a pretty strong formula to test our will, reason and resiliency in order to find good friends, good lovers, good business partners.

Prenuptial agreements are a great service to take “what ifs” off the table for a serious relationship and let the couple proceed to focus on making the most positive out of all joys and also challenges to come. Shite happens, circumstances can go wrong, love doesn’t always die in order for bad things to occur, prepare for you loved ones- that’s you (each other) right now and your future selves and maybe children.

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