What do really outgoing guys look for in a significant other?

I’m a shy girl that loves outgoing guys. To expand further on my shyness, I actually believe I am an sociable, friendly person that’s just very inhibited… I suppose things have happened in my life that have put me inside a shell. But often I force myself to come out of my comfort zone. I try to appear confident too… but it doesn’t always match how I feel inside.

Sometimes outgoing guys notice that I appear confident and outgoing so they are attracted to me. I’m afraid to let them into my life and reveal too much about myself in fear of them finding out how I really am. In particular this one guy I like, always asks me what I do in my spare time thinking I go out lots, but often I just stay home. And I don’t have a lot of friends… He asks me to “invite my friends” when we go out… but of the few I have, I know they don’t like to meet strangers (my friends are equally antisocial I suppose).

This is what makes me insecure.

So for all outgoing guys – would it bother you if a girl you liked turned out to be rather shy?