Am I the only female who in incapable of hooking her own bra from behind her?

Odd wording, I know. But I’ll try to explain.

I cannot hook my bra from behind, but I can unhook it from behind. I cannot hook or unhook another woman’s bra from in front of her. If I want to take off my wife’s bra, I have to get behind her and look at it get your minds outta the gutter in order to get it off. To put on my own bra I have to clasp it in front of me, spin it around, and put my arms in it.

I’ve always been like this. It’s been kind of a running joke among all of my female partners. Ha ha, tinyfaery can’t unhook a bra.

Am I truly the only one? Can you help me? What’s my problem?