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Would you stay or go?

Asked by Facade (22937points) September 6th, 2009

This is a hypothetical situation for y’all about a real situation for me. I already know what I’m going to do, but what would you guys do in this situation?

You are in a long-term, monogamous relationship with your partner whom you love. You live with your parents, are unemployed, and in your twenties. You are also in college and may not have an actual career for three years or more. Your partner has a career and is almost 30. Your partner’s career has them moving pretty much every few months to a year. The both of you desire to one day buy a home and get married as soon as you are able. Your partner’s job is very unpredictable in that they may be moved at any time with little to no notice.

Knowing that your partner may never be in one place for more than a year or so, would you stay with them and continue the long distance relationship you both now have, or would you break it off because you want a relationship with more substance and stability? Why?

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