Would you have met the other girl or guy?

My husband cheated on me over a year ago. I moved to Virginia where this went down. I had never met the girl I had only talked to her online and over the phone and I just met her. It was the most awkward experience ever. This girl was really weird telling me how pretty I was and all this other shannanigans. I think I made a mistake by meeting her. what would you have done? would you have met her?