How to get people to accept an age gap?

I believe last time I was active here (on Fluther), I had a boyfriend and all. Well, that ended and I’ve had some time off to think. Now I am in a new relationship with someone who is 50. I am 20.

He’s a sincere, honest man and I really enjoy my time with him. We can talk about SO many things and we really do have a lot in common. We read the same books, listen to the same music, watch the same shows, and (most importantly) see eye-to-eye on many topics, like spirituality.

We can see ourselves being together because our paths are very similar and we really enjoy being together and support each other. We are currently taking things slowly and are in no hurry to “tie the knot” so to speak.

In case you are wondering, there is no kids issue. I have an hormone problem and have stopped ovulating completely and there are a lot of genetic, personal, and health reasons for why I shouldn’t have kids. He doesn’t want kids either so this isn’t an issue for him. I like him because he’s a strong individual who loves to read and loves his career. I work hard in school and I know I am going to be successful too. I feel like…gosh, it’s so hard to describe…he’s not my “half” but rather we are both WHOLE people with good lives, and we just better the other. It’s a good feeling.

But there’s this 30 year age gap. I am aware of what will happen in the decades from now. However, he does take care of himself. The gap doesn’t bother either of us because I like him for what’s inside. However, I feel it’s that time that I should start telling people, like my family and my friends.

I do not come from a very “strict” family but I am still a little worried. How should I tell them? I want to let them know that I love and respect them, but I am very happy with this person and our relationship. I ask for acceptance and understanding and hopefully, they will see that this man has good intentions and they don’t involve getting into my pants. I can understand that the age may be a little “odd” to them, but I hope with time, they can accept us.

Anyway, I digress. So how should I bring this up to them? Write a letter? Meet in person right away? What is the best way to do this?