Sites or blogs that have music on auto-play, Is annoying or not?

So, my friend helped me a little with my blog, And the last part I put in was my stream-pad. & When I upload music to my blog, the stream-pad will play it. & The stream-pad is located on the bottom of the browser. & is Attached So people can just scroll up or down While listening & searching for song on the Stream-Pad. (It’s On Auto-Play)

But my friend told me it was kinda annoying and i should take it off. & I said “Nah, my visitors could have something to listen to while they’re on my blog. & they could just search for the music on the stream-pad, and if they find a song they like, they can search for it on my blog pages”

He said “Okay, but in my opinion, its very annoying & you should take it off.”

That was the other day, I left the stream-pad on till today and then I took it off, cause what he told me was getting in my head. But Most sites don’t have music, or at least on auto-play. Well most of the people who visit’s the blog would listen to hip-hop, r&b or rap. And I upload Good Quality music that most would like.

So i’m confused on what to do, have a music player for my blog and have it on auto-play so people know right away what kind of music I put on. Or have it not on Auto-play. But A lot of people are lazy, In my opinion, They would be like ” Oh what is that? I’ma just ignore it and keep looking.”

Or don’t have a music player, and let the visitor’s find the music on my blog and play it for them selfs.

So what do you think my best option would be?