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Can you have good sex without a meaningful relationship?
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January 3rd, 2010
I read a question posed here earlier with the provocative title and oft spoken about sex in a relationship: Can you have a meaningful relationship if the sex isn’t good… etcetera…
This is discussed ad nauseum, usually with people saying that good sex is key to a relationship. While I agree, in part, I have another question, which is almost the exact opposite:
Can you have good sex without a meaningful relationship?
Most guys, and maybe girls too, will say yes – you can have a great quickie, one-niter – or whatever euphemism you prefer.
Me – I can’t. I simply do not enjoy anything about meaningless (my word) sex with a stranger, or even with someone I’ve just met.
This is something that has changed in me – over time. I wasn’t like that in my 20s and 30s.
Can you relate?
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