Should I have eaten it?

I went to a friends house for dinner the other night. She made spaghetti and it tasted horrible. I told her that I couldn’t eat it. It was so spicey that it was burning my mouth and my eyes were watering. She got reall mad at me and I ended up leaving.I’ve fixed things that she said she didn’t like and I never got mad at her. I tried calling her several times yesterday but she didn’t answer. We’ve been friends for about a year now and have a lot in common. Should I have just eaten it and not said anything even though I was suffering?