What is your experience with victimhood?

Have you ever been in a situation where you was done wrong? Really big wrong? You got screwed and your life was ruined (or at least, that’s what you said at the time)?

What happened? What did it feel like? How did you respond to the situation? Were you able to get past it, or has it stuck with you for a long time? If you got past it, how did you do that? If it stuck with you, why do think that was? Did your attitude play a role in this? What did you learn from the experience?