How do i tell my religious family that i believe religions are the problem with the world, when all they want to do is tell me that i'm wrong for not going to church?

i grew up in the christian church. i believe the teachings of love and kindness are commendable, however, control through guilt and judgement are all i see when i go to church. I want to have nothing to do with religious affiliations and would like my family to kindly leave me alone. Any suggestions on how i can convey this message?