Would you forego getting lap dances, etc. if your S/O was strongly against it?

There was a recent question about whether paying strippers is considered cheating or not, so I apologize if this is too similar. I know that bachelor parties are a right of passage and all, but after recent discussions, I’m kind of disappointed with what I’ve heard.
Guys: If you were to have a bachelor party, would you insist that you get lap dance(s) on stage, including whatever else they decide to do to you or your friends buy you, even if your girlfriend was strongly against it? Is there any way she could appeal to you to make you reconsider? Would you be willing to give this up for the happiness and comfort of the person you love?

Girls: Are/would you be okay with this?